Why I Didn't Buy You A Drink (5 pics)

Dude! I fully agree.

same here! seems the same things go on over here in OZ

good call!!

Its funny and sad because its true and sad.
Awesome post, mate!

Epic, that's some funny stuff, and like Potmus sad, it's funny because it's true. And the thing about the girl buying the drink, so true.

Wow... Very profound.
I have never experienced this, but I have been to clubs with those types of people. I have seen this happen with my fellow dudes... and I am glad I read this.
I hope this isn't taken as an attack by any ladies, because I didn't see it as one.

Thank you for the post. I'll take it to heart.

great one dude

I agree, I hate girls like that!
I'm the type of person that wont even take a free drink off a friend unless I have the money to shout them next round.

As a woman, I agree wholeheartedly! Good on you!
If any woman is offended by it then they have their heads up their arses.

Well put, sir. Well put indeed.

I think this guy would like you to think he isn't a douchebag while being more of one

My friends and I refer to them as TOBs (tricked out b****es). Those girls that go to a bar and expect to drink for free. "Buy me a drink?" "Ummmm... nah"

This guy knows the truth. +1, wonderful speech!

I am deeply grateful for this small nugget of insight; so much so that I believe it will also be my policy henceforth, and if queried I will offer the same explanation you have so graciously provided

good to see that there are others with the same view as me on buying ladies drinks at the club

There actually are girls who´ll more or less demand drinks? That´s so fucked up... I usually reject drinks from guys I don´t have any interest in talking to, I just feel bad that they spend the money thinking it´ll get them somewhere.

Been through the same experience myself (save for the lucky girl at the end)

Well done my man. I've spread the good word via facebook

Somebody I care much gave me this webpage to see the post and this is what I replied him:


the only part that i really re-read once and again and I dont feel totally comfortable with is the part: "I introduced the big girl to an open-minded friend"
means several things like: to be with a big girl you must be an open minded person.. so a big girl is not a normal girl as the rest
then: I buyed the drink to the big lady just for compassion AND to see you furious
after: the big girl is the one who will always appreciate the drink because nobody offers her one.
again: I only did it for compassion and for touching your nose, not because I would fuck a big girl
and: I offered the drink and then i just managed to introduce the chubby someone else because I would prefer to sleep alone before fucking her

It is not about feeling attacked or not, its about reading what he wrote and what he meant.

this is perfect... and it makes me smile to think that some one out there ( and now a few more from the looks of it) will think twice about spending money on people they don't even know or barely for that matter... as a woman i can honestly say that i have never expected some one to buy me a drink... i think that line of thinking is self centered and shallow... if some one is truly interested they will offer to keep the conversation alive...

i have gotten a few guys out there drinks before and it is true... they are immediately smitten... its kinda cute...

Things are the same here in england... i know the types and agree with everything you said. bravo for putting this out there.

Mate i fully agree with you, respect.

you are one wise bastard u knew that? cheers to that

here's a good little line when a girl acts like that that I use
"why dont oyu buy ME a drink and then we will see.."

I take a bow and am full of respect!

Thank you. I've always had the policy of not buying girls drinks, but I could never pin down my exact thought processes. This cleared that up to me. Bookmarked and forwarded to all female buddies I've had arguments about that.

Fair play mate, i'd have probably took my chances with her, but man, you stuck to your guns. way to go! Great post as well!

Very awesome post and I thoroughly agree with everything you said.