Dude! I fully agree.

same here! seems the same things go on over here in OZ

good call!!

Its funny and sad because its true and sad.
Awesome post, mate!

Epic, that's some funny stuff, and like Potmus sad, it's funny because it's true. And the thing about the girl buying the drink, so true.

Wow... Very profound.
I have never experienced this, but I have been to clubs with those types of people. I have seen this happen with my fellow dudes... and I am glad I read this.
I hope this isn't taken as an attack by any ladies, because I didn't see it as one.

Thank you for the post. I'll take it to heart.

great one dude

I agree, I hate girls like that!
I'm the type of person that wont even take a free drink off a friend unless I have the money to shout them next round.

As a woman, I agree wholeheartedly! Good on you!
If any woman is offended by it then they have their heads up their arses.

Well put, sir. Well put indeed.

I think this guy would like you to think he isn't a douchebag while being more of one

My friends and I refer to them as TOBs (tricked out b****es). Those girls that go to a bar and expect to drink for free. "Buy me a drink?" "Ummmm... nah"

This guy knows the truth. +1, wonderful speech!

I am deeply grateful for this small nugget of insight; so much so that I believe it will also be my policy henceforth, and if queried I will offer the same explanation you have so graciously provided

good to see that there are others with the same view as me on buying ladies drinks at the club

There actually are girls who´ll more or less demand drinks? That´s so fucked up... I usually reject drinks from guys I don´t have any interest in talking to, I just feel bad that they spend the money thinking it´ll get them somewhere.

Been through the same experience myself (save for the lucky girl at the end)

Well done my man. I've spread the good word via facebook

Somebody I care much gave me this webpage to see the post and this is what I replied him:


the only part that i really re-read once and again and I dont feel totally comfortable with is the part: "I introduced the big girl to an open-minded friend"
means several things like: to be with a big girl you must be an open minded person.. so a big girl is not a normal girl as the rest
then: I buyed the drink to the big lady just for compassion AND to see you furious
after: the big girl is the one who will always appreciate the drink because nobody offers her one.
again: I only did it for compassion and for touching your nose, not because I would fuck a big girl
and: I offered the drink and then i just managed to introduce the chubby someone else because I would prefer to sleep alone before fucking her

It is not about feeling attacked or not, its about reading what he wrote and what he meant.

this is perfect... and it makes me smile to think that some one out there ( and now a few more from the looks of it) will think twice about spending money on people they don't even know or barely for that matter... as a woman i can honestly say that i have never expected some one to buy me a drink... i think that line of thinking is self centered and shallow... if some one is truly interested they will offer to keep the conversation alive...

i have gotten a few guys out there drinks before and it is true... they are immediately smitten... its kinda cute...

Things are the same here in england... i know the types and agree with everything you said. bravo for putting this out there.

Mate i fully agree with you, respect.

you are one wise bastard u knew that? cheers to that

here's a good little line when a girl acts like that that I use
"why dont oyu buy ME a drink and then we will see.."

I take a bow and am full of respect!

Thank you. I've always had the policy of not buying girls drinks, but I could never pin down my exact thought processes. This cleared that up to me. Bookmarked and forwarded to all female buddies I've had arguments about that.

Fair play mate, i'd have probably took my chances with her, but man, you stuck to your guns. way to go! Great post as well!

Very awesome post and I thoroughly agree with everything you said.

It's prostitution.

Thanks, I've been through it all and feel like I'm more beautiful on the inside than many of these girls

As a cute girl, I just feel really uncomfortable when random guys buy me drinks. When I'm out with my friends, I just want to have fun with them, not be waving off a bunch of popped collar morons trying to buy their way in with alcohol.

I agree with about 89% of your post. I dont feel that girls that sleep around have less respect for themselves than girls that don't. Girls have sex drives, the same way men do. Would you say a man who sleeps around has no respect for himself? No. I don't view sex as this SACRED thing. It's an act, something to share with some one else. So long as you're safe, have sex with whoever you want however often you want.

Second, you seem to place a lot of emphasis on body type making you as shallow-if not more for not wanting to be as shallow-as the collar-popped 'douches'. Your 'Open-minded' friend is the one who had sex with the big girl. I don't think sex with the plus sized means youre open minded at all; it means that image doesn't mean anything to you. You either love sex and so will have it off with anyone, or you genuinely like people for who they are rather than what they look like, nothing open minded about it.

That being said, it is a nowhere road to buy girls drinks, as it's a game; one that they run. They KNOW they're the gate keepers of sex and anyone foolish enough to fall into a trap deserves to lose money. I don't play the games on the midway for a reason.

2wen,

With a beard like that i think not!

A short answer would be, "I know that buying you a drink does not automatically entitle me to go to bed with you, but can you imagine actually going to bed with someone who didn't buy you a drink? I don't pay for sex."

I'm female and you speak the truth.....awesome post....I hope the bimbos out there read this(IF they CAN read)....

Funny, I've had those conversations before in my early 20s. "Buy me a drink.." "Uh... buy ME a drink.." k thx.

Epic!! Women are kinda w-hores today... Cheers, u make man-kind better!

Sad but true. If you want in the douchebagette's panties, you must open your wallet, and the majority of the time you will still go home alone.

Funny, I've even been at the bar with a gf who got me a drink on some dumbass's tab!

I am about to be 21 so i will be going to bars pretty soon. I will take that shit to heart. You are truly wise.

Ive said that to a girl before and she said that she was ok, and even respected that I didnt make a habit of buying strange girls drinks. I ended up buying her a drink just because she didn't expect me to. Lovely girl, that one.

as a woman who doesn't go to bars, i guess i kind of get your point...but still... you are, in effect playing a game when you go to a bar to do this type of thing. what you are proposing is changing the rules. while i can sort of agree with certain of your statements(kind of), you have got to realize that this point of view you have is going to alienate women and result in you wasting your time hanging out in bars completely if all you are looking for is a date or a score. but you should also be aware that if you are looking for a quality woman, you are not going to find her in a bar.

respect, brother.

I was totally with you right up till that last two lines. You were so right but then with that you threw the whole rest of the article away. It's back to being about the free booze.

damn

Well said and true. I'd buy him a drink.

wow man. i completely agree with you. thank you for posting.

fat chicks rock harder anyway!!!

I'm a female and I TOTALLY agree with this post! : ) Kudos dude!!!

The "hater" chicks can argue all they want, but it's true- some hot chicks need to stop acting like everyone owes you something JUST because your cute- no one owes you shit

and it you were actually that awesome of a woman, then you'd have a decent enough income of your own to buy your own fuckin' drinks- don't try to act all sly and then turn around and get offended when someone calls you out on it.