The Future of Sex: Predicting the Top Trends for 2023

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Human relationships and attitudes toward sex are constantly evolving. As the world’s collective attitude towards sex becomes more liberal, our openness to new experiences grows. 

All of this has paved the way for the trends that seemed pretty farfetched a generation or so ago. We’re already doing the things that would have made our grandparents blush, but we’re only scratching the surface of what’s to come. 

To put things in some perspective, here’s a brief overview of seven top sex trends for 2023, which are only set to gain further traction indefinitely:

• Webcam Sex

The COVID-19 pandemic radically transformed the way we think about webcam sex. Virtual hookups over massive distances became the norm, gradually becoming second nature for separated couples. With no choice but to get creative, that’s exactly what the entire world did. 

When lockdown finally ended, the masses had warmed to the idea of webcam sex, which has been a staple on the scene ever since. Forget dirty talk by telephone, and the occasional suggestive text – full-frontal hookups via webcams are where it’s at right now. 

• Online Sex Camming 

Not to be confused with conventional webcam sex, online sex camming involves hooking up with online models and performers worldwide. Slowly, but surely, this is taking over as the new standard for those who would have once sought sexual satisfaction in porn.

With online sex camming, you get to hook up with incredible women in real-time and take part in the action. You can tell them exactly what you want to see, put on a show yourself, and indulge in just about any fantasy you wish. Conventional porn days may be numbered, which isn’t necessarily bad.

• Remote Control Toys

These things are simply fantastic. Sending sex toys by post to a partner is always fun. But how about sex toys that someone else can control over a distance?

Remote control sex toys –sometimes called teledildonics – can completely transform how long-distance partners keep things hot. Coupled with a webcam, it’s just about as close as it gets to actually being there to pleasure your partner in person without actually being there.

• Ethical Non-Monogamy

Admittedly, this is essentially just the latest hipster term for an open relationship. Even so, it’s becoming more popular, never before. From swinging to polyamory to simply indulging in regular three ways, people are becoming increasingly liberal in their relationships.

The idea is that with ethical non-monogamy, both partners have the opportunity to explore their sexuality and indulge in their fantasies elsewhere without feeling guilty or compromising their relationship. 

• Virtual Reality Sex

Virtual reality sex is more than simply donning a headset and watching people do their thing. Eventually, a time will come when it’s possible to strap yourself into a head-to-toe suit and interact with other people as if they were right there with you.

This is something that was expected to have made more headway by now but is gradually starting to gain momentum. Still, some more adventurous producers are already experimenting with VR content, so there are a few sneak peeks of what’s to come already doing the rounds.

• Mindfulness

Those who master the art of mindful sex swear that there is no better way to gain maximum enjoyment from every encounter. If you’re new to the idea, mindful sex basically means engaging yourself comprehensively at the moment, soaking up every aspect of the experience from start to finish.
It’s an approach to sex that takes the focus away from reaching orgasm, instead concentrating on how the experience stimulates each of the five senses. You form deeper connections, channel your emotions, and dedicate yourself to your partner's pleasure. 

• Outercourse

Similarly, a growing contingency of liberated adults from all backgrounds is choosing to explore the pleasures of outercourse. This refers to any sexual activity where penetration is not involved. Examples of this include massage, touching, kissing, and oral sex, but in many cases takes the form of mutual masturbation.

Outercourse is not simply about eliminating the risk of STIs or pregnancy. It feeds very much into the whole mindfulness theory, whereby taking penetration off the menu forces you to take greater pleasure in the subtler and more sensual aspects of the experience. 

In Conclusion

In conclusion, the future of sex looks incredibly exciting, with a wealth of new technologies and trends set to transform the way we engage with our bodies and our partners. From virtual reality to teledildonics and the rise of the sex tech industry, the possibilities for exploration and experimentation seem endless.

However, it's important to remember that these changes also bring new challenges and ethical considerations, particularly around issues such as consent and privacy. As we move forward into this brave new world of sexual innovation, it will be crucial to keep these issues at the forefront of our minds and to approach new technologies with an open and critical eye.

Ultimately, though, there is no doubt that the future of sex is one that promises to be full of pleasure, passion, and endless possibilities.