Now, the thing is that most of these rules are pretty standard practice/common courtesy, and so people in the group pointed out that there wasn’t really a reason to put all of these into writing in a “save the date” card. They didn't even point it out in that harsh of a way. The bride’s defensiveness is… Interesting:
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And then it comes out: The bride doesn’t trust the mother-in-law, and this is where things start to fly off the rails into "I'll throw you out myself" territory: